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Leadership

What the Vote Says About Us, Not Them 

Priya Kumar

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What the vote says about us, not them

On election nights, we rush to analyse leaders. We sift through their promises, performances, and even perceived failures. While we put on our judgement hats to select the leaders, we must also be aware that the election is as much a reflection of the voter as it is of the one voted for. Even before a vote is cast, a society has already revealed what it is willing to hope for, compromise on, or accept. 

Every election result is quickly framed as a verdict on leaders — their competence, credibility, or character. We debate who failed and who succeeded. But we miss to see that a vote speaks as much about the voter as it does about the one voted for.  

Elections are collective mirrors. They reveal what we are drawn to, what we are tired of, and what we are willing to accept — sometimes reluctantly, sometimes enthusiastically. A deeper process that leads to the vote is often overlooked: citizens negotiating their expectations, lowering some hopes, clinging to others, deciding what matters most right now. 

When people vote, they are rarely making perfect choices. They are making contextual ones. Choices shaped by dejection, fear, aspiration, anger, memory, and survival. A vote can be an endorsement — but it can also be a compromise, or a protest, or….. a sigh. 

This is why reading elections only as moral judgments on leaders is incomplete. They are also emotional statements about society. About what we prioritise when clarity is scarce. About which discomforts we find more tolerable than others. About how much uncertainty we are willing to live with. 

In organisations, leaders know this pattern well. Annual engagement surveys measure management effectiveness and they reflect employee morale, trust, and belief in the future. Low scores are about accumulated experiences. Elections work the same way. 

A vote doesn’t emerge in isolation. It carries the weight of everyday conversations — kitchen-table anxieties, workplace pressures, social comparisons, undiscussed disappointments. By the time people step into a voting booth, they are responding not just to the promises the candidate has made, but also to how life has felt. 

This is why societies often elect leaders who mirror their emotional state. When confidence is high, ambition feels attractive. When exhaustion sets in, reassurance matters more. When uncertainty dominates, certainty, even performative certainty can feel comforting. 

This doesn’t mean that the voter is irrational, they are just human, as are the candidates they are voting for. And that is the real lesson elections offer us, if we’re willing to look beyond the headlines. Instead of asking only, “Why did they choose this?” a more honest question might be, “What does this choice reveal about our collective state of mind?” 

The answers reflect the state of relationships between citizens and institutions, effort and reward, hope and experience. Over time, those relationships shape behaviour and the state of the country at large. 

Perhaps the most mature response to an election, then, would be deep reflection on what expectations did we carry into this moment? What compromises did we make? What conversations did we avoid having with ourselves? 

The vote has been cast. Now the work begins — understanding what it says about us.